11.10.2005 21:44 - Words for the Times we Live in (Governments please note.)
Or : Proactivity vs. Lateral Thinking.
Give a man a fish and you'll feed him for a day.
Teach a man to fish and you'll have fed him for a lifetime.
Asking a man if he likes to eat fish before doing either of these will save the both of you a lot of wasted effort, arguments and misery.
